Alcoholism is a problem that ruins people of all social
classes. In The Recovery Bible we
have first person accounts of addiction and recovery, but they’re mostly from
the days before World War II. This was an era when you didn’t have fancy rehab,
and recovery meant cold turkey, not pills. You didn’t have Hollywood
celebrities getting famous from their addictions, because the shame of alcohol
and sleeping pills were an incentive to keep it all hidden. One of the radical
things about Alcoholics Anonymous is that it required confession; you had to
admit that your drinking had taken control of you, and that you were no longer
in charge. But there’s one thing absent from a lot of these accounts; nobody
changes their habits unless they really want to, and to really want to, you may
have to hit rock bottom.
It’s an interesting book. Most of the accounts are by men,
and that doesn’t surprise me, because up until the 1920’s, it was considered
unacceptable for women to drink alcohol. Those of you that watch Sex And The
City know that it perfectly common these days for both genders to have $30
cocktails every day of the week, and that was something you didn’t see at the
time AA began. Come to think of it, the Sex And The City characters probably
drink two or three pints of hard liquor in every episode. But in the Back Slider chapter of The Recovery Bible, it’s clear that the
man’s alcoholism made things a hundred times worse for the women in the family.
You didn’t have a whole lot of jobs for women in those days, and if the husband
and father started drinking, the family would be ruined.
I have only one problem with this book, in that I believe it
may give a slightly inaccurate representation of the events that lead to a
person joining Alcoholics Anonymous. It’s unlikely that an addict will want
help unless he loses his support network, or to put it in a gambler’s lingo, “his
luck runs out.” The only way he’ll acknowledge that his luck has run out is
when his wife locks him out, his family hang up on his, and his boss fires him.
Out on the streets with nothing, he’ll soon realize that his ways don’t work.
It’s for this reason that I think The Lost
Weekend had the wrong ending. The alcoholic in that story would not have
stopped drinking as long as his girlfriend was there, and his brother was
paying his rent, and the bar gave him credit. I’ve heard addiction counselors
tell me the same thing.
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