Mind Over Medicine
is about a solution to a great American problem; we let our jobs control our
lives, and our lives control our jobs. In a recent issue of Minds magazine,
some cops from Oregon took a meditation course as a way to reduce stress. Most
of them scoffed at the idea; they all had hobbies, pastimes, and things to do
outside of work, so what use would they have for meditation and yoga? But the
truth is they needed it badly. The job was often boring rather than active, and
that made them resentful. The resentment made it harder to maintain
self-control when dealing with rude civilians, and there were numerous
complaints.
Dr. Lissa Rankin has written a well-researched and highly
enjoyable book on overworked Americans and what we can do about this. She makes
it very clear; Americans tend to work long hours and lack true happiness. Worse
than the long hours, we have long commutes, and we often hate our jobs. But in
the chapter Loneliness Poisons the Body,
we see how in one small town had far less stress. The town was
Roseto, Pennsylvania,
founded by Italian immigrants in the early 20th century. Doctors
found that there was no suicide, alcoholism, drug use, or crime, and that heart
disease was rare. Was it the olive oil? No, the residents cooked everything in
lard. Healthy food? No, they all loved pizza and sausages, and their diet was
40% fat. Genetics? They had the same genes as all other Italian Americans. Then
secret was communal activity; families, and even multifamily groups, would
gather nightly for group singing, while all the kids played together. Happiness
was the key to their health.
Roseto didn’t do well in the modern era. As the younger
generation left, the parents had less to do with themselves. As younger
college-educated people came back, they influenced their younger townspeople
with ideas, most of them about material things. The kids started demanding more,
and feelings of discontent spread. By the 1980’s, there were more heart attacks
among the residents. The chapter Death by
Overwork is something that most Americans ignore. Why do we work such huge
hours to pay for a huge home, when we could live in a smaller one and work less?
Is it necessary for the kids to go to expensive colleges, when community
colleges are within biking distance?
Years ago, I visited a family in Israel that lived in a tiny
house, the size of a trailer. We ate dinner on the patio, and the father told
us how he’d fixed the roof himself. When we left, my father spoke about how
shocked he was. “They don’t have any money at all,” my father said, “their home
is so small.” But I didn’t see it that way. The family had no mortgage to pay,
only two of their kids were still living at home, and they didn’t have to pay
for college. In short order, the family was 100% solvent. But if you have a
huge house, two cars, and a kid going to an expensive college, are you truly
rich? Are you in debt? Do you have to work such huge hours to pay for what you
have?
Unless you are free from debt, you will never be truly free.
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